August 30, 2018

He comes to me quietly, in the day to day nonchalance, until suddenly, I notice that his eyes are blue.

I know that I shouldn’t keep noticing how they follow me as I move, but I like the attention. I’ve always liked attention. And then I begin to notice more, like how h...

August 28, 2018

this has been the question of my lifetime, but also what i've been most reluctant to talk about.  it's very shame based for me.  i've learned that when i have a feeling like that, i'm probably not as alone as i think.  so i'm putting it out there.

who am i sup...

August 23, 2018

Love is… Love is Not…

Life can bring blessings and also lessons. In my previous relationship, if that’s what you want to call it, I only gained two blessings which are my two kids Isaiah and Imani. The lessons have caused me a world of pain, heartache, resentment, hate,...

August 21, 2018

Song of Reference: Ex-Factor- Lauryn Hill
 

Can I even consider you an ex? We played that gray area for our entire "relationship". Me, always wanting more and you somehow convincing me what we had was enough. I was young and very dumb, picking petals off of flowers, swe...

August 9, 2018

Disney is full of shit. Okay, maybe not; but they’re the only people I can think to blame for these false ideologies floating around about love. I got into a relationship with what appeared to be my ‘Prince Charming’ and he showed his ass.

Sit back and enjoy the tea sis...

August 7, 2018

There’s just something about love that makes us crazy. Maybe it’s the way we’re wired or maybe it’s the way other people make us feel...either way, I’ve learned that love is a powerful thing; and it’s bigger than me.

I’ve learned over the years that I’m a sucker. No m...

August 7, 2018

Does the perfect man exist? Or am I just too broken to know what to do with him? Am I the only woman that has a panic attack when the idea of marriage comes along? What if I’m not ready? Will I spend my whole life being a flight risk?

I’ve spent my whole life either try...

August 2, 2018

Unpopular relationship opinion: I don’t want to be in one… And everyone telling me, “Once you meet the right guy, that will change,” is, to be quite frank, really f*ing annoying.

I’ve never been that enticed by the idea of a relationship. From a young age I never s...

July 31, 2018

This blog is a part of our #MixedLove series.

It’s not often that I have to put my big girl panties on with the guys I hook up with. Usually, things fizzle out or we ghost on one another. But there was one time I had to be a big girl, own my feelings and make a promise...

Black Honey Collective's Queen Bee series features influential women that show excellence in their areas of work to gain insight into their relationship experiences as it relates to their success and personal growth.

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